Relationship Tips - Essential Tips For That First Date

Are you having jitters for your very first date? First dates can be intimidating, and being ill-prepared for this can end up you feeling painfully awkward. Fret not! Here are some tips and advice to help you get started on the right foot.

What To Wear

Leave that low-plunging, sexy outfit out. Your date won't know much about you and will mostly likely judge you at face value based on how you look and behave. You would want him to look at your eyes rather than your bosom all night. Wear something presentable and comfortable, smelling nice with a slight dash of perfume. Preen yourself up with some make up but not too overwhelming. Use that mascara to lengthen and thicken your lashes, accentuate with some light hues and let your eyes do the talking and mesmerizing with your date. Keep those lips kissable and glistening with moisturizing lip gloss. (Well you never know)

Location Location Location

Keep the first date simple; pick a nice and cozy restaurant where you both can feel at ease with each other without figuring too much on high class dining etiquette or the like. Always choose to meet at a place where there are people around, never go for secluded areas. Remember your safety is important.

Be Punctual

There's no such thing as being fashionably late, you might just make the guy feel that you have stood him up. It also shows signs that you do not respect him. So it's really important to be on time, especially on that first date. Besides you really want to make a good impression don't you?

Starting That Conversation

Ask your date about him and show genuine interest. This is the time when you can get to know him better and see the compatibility. Good conversational topics are work, hobbies, sports etc. Your date would most likely want to learn more about you too. Keep things light and comfortable for both of you; do not stray into sensitive topics or too personal questions. Read The Signs

First date is usually a hit or miss. Look at the body language, the expressions. Is he mirroring your gestures? Is he listening attentively to you? Is he leaning towards you as you speak? These are the positive signs. However if you notice that he starts crossing his arms, the eyes get shifty and he keeps looking at his watch, you know that things are not going that well. In this case, you should end the date early if it's not being enjoyable. Take it easy though, there are many people to meet and Mr Right could be just on your next date. Be Yourself

Physical attraction can only take your relationship so far. Let your personality shines. Speak your mind with tact and be honest with your date, as if with a good friend. You might be putting yourself in a difficult situation if you come up with white lies, no matter how harmless you think they might be. Build trust as this first date could be a start to a serious relationship. Keep in mind that there are always more first dates to come. Put these dating tips to good use, and most importantly, enjoy yourself!

by Apple Lim